#Socialites, get into this! A man is going viral on X (formerly Twitter), after revealing that he divorced his wife for withholding sex from him. He claimed that they had only smashed twice in two years.
The man, identified on X as Tim Hicks, caused a huge debate on Saturday (February 17) when he tweeted about where things went wrong in his previous marriage. During his viral rant on X, Hicks admitted that he “lost [his] virginity at 27 and was terrible with women.” He also said his “marriage suffered because [he] didn’t know what to do.”
Things first began as Hicks reacted to a thread by another male X user reposting a screenshot from Reddit that was titled, “I have been cheating on her for the last 3 years.” The male user captioned the screenshot and said, “This happens to so many men. I know a guy going through it right now but he refuses to cheat and instead is always angry with his wife and resents his family. I told him, he’d be a better dad and husband if he just found a release. Even just one-offs on business trips would do.”
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Reacting to the thread, a female X user said, “Because emotional connection and sex aren’t the same thing. Emotional connection should have been established way before anyone was having sex. Sex is a privilege.”
Hicks jumped in and replied, “Reminds me of another group of women who weaponize sex against the patriarchy. There’s no difference between feminism and this. Think long and hard of a man who said, ‘Living under my roof or benefiting from my work is a privilege.’ What would the response be?”
He continued, “Why is sex freely given to one man and conditional for others? This is the heart of the red pill. For every man who has to meet conditions to have sex with one woman, those conditions don’t exist for other women. Why? The man doesn’t know the idea that he shouldn’t have to bargain for sex. When he knows, he knows his worth and the power he has. Red pilled. Men will stray because their wife puts conditions on intimacy and their side chick doesn’t…”
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He also noted, “A man who knows his worth is sexy. Women know it and flock to it. Men want a marriage where sex isn’t used as a commodity. Where there’s mutual attraction and lust. Yes, there will be times neither of you feel like sex, but using it to gain compliance isn’t the way.”
Hicks continued, “Stop putting conditions on your husband for sex. You obviously yearned for him, where is that unrepentant lust? You gave him sex when courting. Is he not attractive anymore? Or does he not help around the house? Stop giving him sex only when he does good things. He’s not a dog.”
The viral man then issued a strong affirmation while revealing that he divorced his wife for withhholding sex. He said, “I will never again negotiate sex in a marriage. It’s why I got divorced. Men are miserable because you are withholding sex for him until he does what he’s told. That’s a private hell. If that is done to me, you’re out, sweetheart. Too many women out there who give sex without conditions.”
Hicks added, “‘Will you take care of the kids, the house, the dishes?’ I do that sh*t already and don’t get laid for doing it. Your sex being held at the end of a fishing pole for compliance is only going to make you suffer.”
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Hicks’ comments started to get the women riled up and one female X user fired back, “‘Negotiate sex in a marriage’ – this is a poor choice of words because if you don’t negotiate, what are you doing ‘taking’ or ‘stealing’? I mean….is that…R@pe?”
Hicks replied, “There it is. No, it’s not r@pe. It’s a woman who at the beginning of the relationship was giving sex happily and freely then stopped for one reason or another. Get that r@pe crap out of my timeline. I had sex twice in the last two years of my marriage.Ladies, I’m trying to have a discussion of lack of sex in marriage. If you bring ‘r@pe’ into the discussion, you not looking for an answer, you’re looking for a fight. And if you are being r@ped or @bused in your marriage, call the cops, and get the f**k out of that situation. F**k. “
Hicks posed another argument and said, “Many of the replies by ladies in this tweet: ‘If you had done better, she would have been better.’ I agree. I needed to step up and didn’t. But marriage also is 50/50. It also brings up the age-old question about women’s agency. Women telling men they need to ‘man up’ to save the marriage versus women being praised for leaving. Men don’t get that praise only ‘he was a bad husband.’”
He continued, “‘You just need to be a better man for your wife.’ Fair point. If the man truly wants to be better, then you need to step us as well ladies, because a man who raises his level and creates boundaries is going to need a queen. That’s the trick. You don’t get the good man without doing anything to improve yourself, ladies.”
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